Why won’t he love me what would you do? #explore #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #he… – ryan

Hi there,

Your pain is palpable—losing intimacy and facing your husband’s withdrawal is heartbreaking. His shift from affection to distance, paired with cutting remarks like “you’ve let yourself go” or “you’ve lost your curves,” must feel like rejection no matter what you do. You’ve tried—cooking, date nights, talking—but his distraction, late hours, and guardedness leave you questioning: stress, or something more? Your efforts show love; his responses don’t match. That hurts.

Your intuition’s flagging something’s off, and it’s worth listening to. Try this: say, “I feel so far from you—it’s breaking me. What’s changed?” It’s not blame; it’s an opening. If he dodges, that’s a clue. Decide what you need—honesty, effort—and state it: “I need us to fix this, or I can’t keep going.” Notice patterns—phone obsession, vague hours—without losing yourself in suspicion. His reaction to a direct “Are you happy? Is there someone else?” could reveal much.

You’re drifting to shield your heart, and that’s okay. But don’t stay in limbo. You deserve clarity and love—not just the “us” you had, but a you who feels whole. What’s one step you can take today?

Warmly,Deborah