Always be very clear about you mean. – ryan

Here’s an old joke. Change the details to match your situation.

A young Lieutenant was assigned to take over a British unit in Afghanistan. During his tour of the facilities by the sergeant, the Lieutenant asked “I understand that the men have been out here for quite some time, what do they do for…uh…female companionship?”

The Sergeant led him over to a camel and a stepstool and was about to speak. The lieutenant said “Never mind sergeant, I don’t judge”

After a few weeks, the Lieutenant began to feel a little amorous, and was unable to sleep. He thought to himself “Well, when in Rome, do as the Romans do, eh?” He quietly made his way to the camel and climbed onto the step-stool and began to engage the camel in a lascivious congress when a sentry lit a torch and said “What the devil is going on here?”

The shocked Lieutenant stammered “I thought this was common here”

“Sir, you use the step-stool to climb onto the camel, and ride it to the brothel in town”