After a lifetime other than my faculty darling, we reconnected by likelihood and picked up once more, every of us divorced with grown kids. I assumed we had been pleased and in love till, scrolling by photographs on her iPad looking for extra of her selfies, I discovered a latest full-frontal nude of one other man. I then found torrid writing between her and a minimum of two males, one among them the bare one, which she has apologised for however defended as “merely a joke”. Whereas I really like this lady, not least for our previous, I can’t recover from how she has advised me she liked me, whereas saying the identical factor to a minimum of two different males. Can we actually have a future?
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