A woman has shared an almost unbelievable set of â€˜tipsâ€™ she received from a guy she met through Tinder â€“ three months after their â€˜disaster dateâ€™.
The 24-year-old, from the UK, had gone on one date with the man â€“ letâ€™s call him Jim â€“ and revealed he came across as a â€œsnob and â€œjustÂ generally a horrible personâ€.
She told LADbible that the date was a disaster. And when she received a list of â€˜tipsâ€™ three months later, she was â€˜absolutely mortifiedâ€™.
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â€œIt killed my confidence, but the more I read it the funnier it became,â€ she told the publication. â€œI couldnâ€™t understand how a guy could say such things to a woman.â€
Posting the shocking message on social media she wrote, â€œImagine being so far up your own a** youâ€™d send this to a girl three months after a dateâ€.
â€œHello Kimberley, I know we went on a date quite a while ago now but Iâ€™d like to explain why I havenâ€™t messaged you,â€ Jim started off.
â€œI feel like you could have made the date much better, hereâ€™s a few reasons why. I apologise if I offend you.â€
The ensuing list of 15 â€˜tipsâ€™ makes us not surprised in the slightest that Jim is still single. Many of them focus on her physical appearance, and he first tells Kimberley she needs to lose some weight,Â use fake tan, and show more cleavage.
â€œI think you need to wear clothes that suit your figure and maybe update your style slightly. Just so Iâ€™m not embarrassed to be seen with you,â€ the advice continued.
Then things get a little confusing as he tells her to dye her hair a more natural colour â€“ but use hair extensions because â€œlong hair is more attractiveâ€, but she needsÂ â€œto look more naturalâ€ and â€œstop wearing make upâ€, before suggesting cosmetic procedures.
â€œYour lips have gone down so you should think of getting more filler. I know you said you regretted it but filler would make you sexier,â€ he said.
He goes on to say she needs to be â€œmore confidentâ€ and â€œmore sensitive to othersâ€™ feelingsâ€. That she is a â€œprudeâ€ and â€œneeds to get a sense of humourâ€.
Obviously of the belief that he is â€“ using MAFSâ€˜ Cyrellâ€™s apt term â€“ â€˜King-ding-a-lingâ€™,Â he goes on to say that if she heeds his advice he might even consider a second date.
â€œIf you take these on board I might consider another date. I will give you a month and get back in touch to see if this made a difference. Good day to you Kimberly.â€
Understandably, the reaction to the messages was one of outrage, shock, and sheer disbelief, with many commenting on ways she could get revenge on Jim.
â€œIâ€™d agree to another date and once he turned up Iâ€™d order the biggest, most expensive meal on the menu, ask for it in a take away container and leave him with the bill, leaving without a goodbye. A**hole deserves his time wasted,â€ was one suggestion.
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â€œIs this bloke for real,â€ one person asked.
â€œMe: Hello [Jim], I know we went on a date quite a while ago now but Iâ€™d like to explain why I havenâ€™t messaged you either. 1) youâ€™re a piece of s***â€¦thatâ€™s all.â€
Since sharing the post online Kimberley has received thousands of comments in support.
â€œWow what a d***. No girl should have to change anything for a man. Youâ€™re beautiful how you are and heâ€™s just too dumb to see that,â€ one person wrote.
Kimberley, who has been on Tinder since November 2018, told Yahoo UK she is baffled by her dateâ€™s decision to get in touch months after their original date.
â€œI genuinely do not know [why he contacted], Iâ€™d like to know myself as he could have sent it straight after the date.
However, the incident has not put Kimberley, who has been on Tinder since November 2018, off dating.
She said: â€œIt hasnâ€™t put me off as Iâ€™ve had a couple of really nice dates since so I know it isnâ€™t all bad.â€